People get scared just from the word divorce. You would be surprised at how couples sometimes react when they meet me and I talk about helping people navigate divorce and beyond as a divorce coach. Usually one of the pair says, “We won’t be needing that.” Then everyone chuckles. I always ask if they know of someone who is experiencing the pain and risk of divorce. No one likes to talk about what could happen in a marriage when it isn’t working. Sometimes, within a few days, I get a call from one of the pair, you see, many people are in denial about the reality of their own relationships. The reality is that over 50% of the people are divorced at some time in their life.
If NOW is your time to go through divorce, let’s talk about the risks. The reason so many people are fearful is that divorce touches the bottom rung of your basic needs in life. Basic needs like shelter, food, security and safety. It is a shakeup of the very foundation you have been operating from over the time of the marriage or relationship. The stability is crumbling and what are you left to stand on? As humbling as it may be, you must pull out your greatest skills and strengths to remaster your life with a brand new foundation.
At Real Freedom NOW we help you figure out the details of who you are and who you want to be going forward. There is never a better time to change, well, you are forced into change in many aspects. You may have to move, change schools for the kids, downsize, get a job, change jobs, find a career, whoa….it is overwhelming and iis happening fast, whether you are ready or not.
The biggest risk is putting your head in the sand. What I mean is pretending….pretending that this will just turn out, somehow or that you don’t have much choice. You have every choice now available, many choices you have put off for years. What do you really want? It’s seems a funny question, but less than a third of all people actually know what their true values are and have never considered making decisions from their core. Well, divorce is the slap in the face awakening, time to devote to reclaiming your SELF. Our Live With Courage Retreat will help you in three short days, quickly figure out all these complex issues about your inner self so that you can direct your life and be happier and healthier than before.
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